Those months I was living in the Spain, the question I got asked the most after learning I was from Portugal was…
¿Sería mejor si fuéramos uno solo país, no? Which means…
Wouldn’t it be better off if we were one same country?
My answer would be an automatic No. Without a given thought. And this is when I become the irrational me I’m not very proud of.
Portugal fought for centuries to be independent, against the Muslims, the Spanish, the French. It is a small country but with great benefits – a generous coast line needed for commerce but also to build a powerful fleet. The weather is agreeable for most of the year, with over 3,000 hours of sun per year, great for farming. So, for the Spanish, having access to this piece of land that seemed more friendly to the cold Atlantic than the latin vibes from its vicinity, our country, that small piece of land was very desirable.
After centuries of fighting them of, and even owning half of the world with them, I’ve grew up feeling very proud that Portugal became its own country and not just another province of Spain. And I do love Spain. And sometimes, I don’t like Portugal that much – I mean, I live in the UK now, where there is only about 1,400 sunshine hours per year so… but only I can talk about that. I’m proud of coming from a land that conquered its independency and developed its own identity.
So, how are we different?
WE DON’T SPEAK THE SAME LANGUAGE
Portuguese and Spanish are different languages and sound completely different as well. For some reason, the Portuguese I speak (not brazilian) doesn’t even sound like a latin language to foreigners’ ears.
But these two languages are in fact very similar. Portuguese people can typically understand the standard Spanish (there are differences in accents within Spain) but often fall into the mistake of thinking we can speak Portuguese with a Spanish accent and that’s done – FALSE. There are too many false friends, to many words we think also exist in Spanish – which either they don’t, or mean complete different things. Some examples below:
To say “I’ll call you” , we say “Ligar-te“. While the same also exists in Spanish, ligar means “to flirt“. So imagine how awkward of a situation you can create. The same with the word we use for being “Embarassed“. In portuguese we say “embaraçada“. In spanish, the same word exist (spelt differently but pronounced with the same sound) that means “being pregnant“. I could list so many others…
Plus, most Spanish people can’t understand us – at least if we speak at a normal pace. So yeah, for my Erasmus, I did take Spanish classes. I had the advantage of my native language being similar, but that sometimes felt like more of a disadvantage because it was so easy to fall into the mistake I was speaking correctly, when in fact I wasn’t.
TAPAS DON’T COME TO THE TABLE FOR FREE
In Spain, it’s common going to have a few beers or to dine out, and get some tapas delivered to your table that you didn’t order. You don’t pay for those, it’s free. However, in Portugal, it’s not really like that. If the waiter comes with some tapas (what we call entradas, aperitivos or petiscos) you didn’t order or even if these are already on table, you will most definitely be billed for them. So, if you don’t really want to pay extra, just ask the waiter to take them out.
NO SIESTA IN PORTUGAL
Spain doesn’t really have it anymore either, specially in Madrid. But the schedules are completely different in comparison to Portugal. While in Spain restaurants in some of parts of the country will only open and start serving lunch after 1:30pm, in Portugal, our lunchtime starts at 12:00pm, and, if you’re eating after 2pm, that’s already considered pretty late. I was taken aback when I realised that my lunchtime break at Uni in Madrid was from 3pm to 4pm. We did had a break at around 11am, but that was more for a desayuno (breakfast). Also, some stores close at 1pm, only to reopen at around 5pm.
PORTUGUESE SOCIETY IS INTROVERT, MORE RESERVED AND MELANCHOLIC
Have you heard about “saudade“? We are such melancholic whiners. Not in a bad way I’d say, but there simply isn’t the same joie de vivre you’d find in Spain. For some reason, our souls are often blue, perhaps due to our past and deep connection to the ocean. Or we simply worry about the future, about its uncertainty. And therefore might not enjoy life as freely, as if we knew that wouldn’t last. Something would come along to take something from us.
Overall, I’d classify the Spanish society has an extrovert. In that sense, we’re probably more like the central and northern european countries – reserved, quieter. .
WE ARE LOUD, BUT NOT THAT LOUD….
Have you been to a place to get a coffee with your friends, and not being able to hear what they are saying to you because everyone seems to be shouting? I have. Multiple times. All of them in Spain…
WE SPEAK BETTER ENGLISH *IUPI*
In my opinion, this comes down to a simple fact – we use subtitles, and in Spain all English shows are dubbed. It means that since early childhood we have been used to listen to the language and unconsciously acquired some vocabulary and learnt about pronunciation.
WE HAVE BETTER COFFEE, BETTER PASTRIES, BETTER BREAD, BETTER FOOD *biased opinion*
Okay, my Spanish friend would kill me, but this is my truth. Don’t get me wrong. Spain has amazing food. But not very healthy. Whereas we also love the chorizos (not myself), the cheeses and so on, our cuisine is typically simpler and still tasty, making it healthier as we don’t fry as many things, and don’t put an entire bottle of olive oil in every single dish. We like to grill meat, fish, veg. We like olive oil, but in moderation. Which is a lot better. Plus our coffee is the best. The only other place I’ve drank coffee I would compare to coffee at home was once in Italy.
THEY ARE MORE PATRIOTIC
So this one might be polemic. I understand there are regional divisions in Spain and often serious conflicts – Cataluña will never consider itself as part of Spain. But overall, every Spanish person I’ve known show such appreciation and pride for their country. A close knit sense of community at times I never felt it existed in Portugal. When I was living in Madrid, I was surprised with the eagerness of population to defend their rights, to go to the streets and push the government. Which for me is a sign of love for your people and your country.
NO MONARCHY IN PORTUGAL. WE KILLED THE KING
Not much to say here. To be honest, that doesn’t really play a role in the way society works. Instead of a King or Queen, we have a president that spends probably as much as they would.
So, okay, this is biased. I am Portuguese, and lived for a while in Spain. I love both countries. Portugal is my home, but Spain, particularly Madrid, will always have a special place in my heart. So the topics listed above are only my perspective and are worth what they are. But hopefully will help you shed some light to anyone out there who is interested in understanding how we are different.
I’d love to hear the opinion of fellow travellers that have been in both countries, but also from Portuguese and Spanish alike 🙂
P.S. While in self-isolation due to COVID-19 pandemic, I’m keeping a regular schedule of posting about my traveling experiences to bring some light into this dark time. A lot of my travel plans will most likely be canceled or postponed, and I want to continue to blog.